Don't you just hate when your 3 year old complains of an upset stomach all morning, asking for medicine. You tell her it doesn't really hurt, that she just wants medicine because it tastes like cherries. You follow her into the bathroom when she says it REALLY doesn't feel good, thinking "OK...I'll humor you", then cry out of guilt when she really throws up into the toilet.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Monday, October 26, 2009
the tooth fairy is on the way...
Mrs. Anderson is awesome. That's all I have to say about that! I saw her in the hallway at school this morning and told her Emily's teeth needed some tending to. She got the job done! :)
Friday, October 23, 2009
the fun run...
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
lovey little Gavin...
So Margaret and I were gone last weekend. Where? DELAWARE! Woohoo! My sister Lisa flew me home to photograph my niece Valerie's new baby...Gavin. He is absolutely delicious. Huge eyes. Tons of dark hair. Val is a perfect little mom. I am so proud of her. I loved having the chance to visit with my family. I'm always in a bit of a funk when I come home. I miss them and am just today, starting to get back into the groove of this motherhood/homemaker thing. :)
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
my twin sisters...
My little sisters, the twins, had their 33rd birthday yesterday! My day was filled with a screaming baby, babysitting, running to and fro. I can finally sit down and do a little post about them. Rachel and Laura...born just minutes apart. Rachel is the dark headed one, Laura is the blond. They are so different. Tall, short. Dark, blond. Different interests. Different passions. But definitely connected. Since I now have twins of my own, I can see just HOW connected. They are the coolest girls. Seriously. Really cool and really fun.
Rachel is a wonderful mom. The kind that doesn't let opportunities for her daughter pass her by. Petting zoo? Check. Crafts at Roberts? Check. Trick or Treating at the mall? Check. She loves Annie immensely. I can guarantee Annie has never had to question that. Rachel loves her and is tender with her.
She's funny. She'll be the first to laugh at herself. You know what though? She doesn't laugh at other people, or talk about them. I think that's such a great quality. She is giving and thoughtful, and I love her.
Laura is a riot. When she's in the right mood, you can't get her to stop. She's crazy and hilarious. Like, wet your pants hilarious. She's nice too. She inherited my Mom's ability to make people feel at ease around her. To make people feel important. She's naive in some ways, and really, really smart in others. She has a degree in social work, which I think really benefits her family and other relationships. She worked with an agency (social services-ish) until she started having kids.
She is a wonderful mom. I know she questions her abilites...all the time, but let it be known, she is capable and loving and perfect at it. Her kids are beautiful, and turning out just as funny as she is. She has a magnetic personality. I am happier when I'm around her. People are drawn to her and her genuine warmth. They really are.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
salt in the wound?
Monday, October 12, 2009
my family, in pictures...
I've taken lots of pictures at the orchard for my friends lately. I was so pleased with one of the shoots, that I had to go back with all the kids and Dave to try and replicate it for US. I can empathize with all my girlfriends when it is picture day. I was slightly frantic. I knew just what I wanted and it was NOT to have the kids running around picking apples. They were wonderful. Dave was kind and supportive. I thanked him the whole way over...he was willing to go, knowing just what kind of beast I would become. :) He knew it was important to me. I love him. Here are my thoughts:
*Lizzy is REALLY tall...and thin.
*My kids are beautiful. Yours are too, but to ME, I've never seen anything more gorgeous.
*Emily is a mini-mom. She takes care of Margaret constantly.
*Molly is a ham.
*Alex is turning into a pre-teen. Wow.
*Dave is gentle and kind and peaceful...and looking pretty hot with his 35 lb weightloss!
I love them. They are my family...forever. That is the coolest thing in all the world.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
my alex.
I needed that experience. Lately Alex has been crazy. Constantly laughing and yelling and running around. It was starting to make me nuts. Nuts and exhausted. He gets sassy with Dave and I don't like it. He's asserting himself. He's still such a good boy, but he's testing his boundaries a little. Anyhow, this experience the other day reminded me that he is my baby. He can come to me with something that makes him sad and I can help to carry some of the load. I can cheer him up. A trip to Walmart with mom, checking out Halloween costumes and picking 3 new boxes of cereal, can cheer him up. He asked me as we were walking in (holding hands by the way, which is a rarity lately), why it made me so sad that he was sad. He said if it were him, he would just be glad he wasn't the one that was hurt. I explained how parenthood works. How you love someone so deeply that their pain is your pain. How your mind carries you back in time to a moment when YOU were 10 and YOU were getting your feelings hurt, and the thought of your sweet boy experiencing those emotions is so, so hard. Today when he got a little crazy with his sisters before church, it didn't bother me quite as much. When he's crazy, he's happy. I can ignore the noise and the silliness if I know he's happy.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
reflections...
If you wonder if anyone could love you, if you are all alone, if anyone has felt the way you are feeling...watch this. You don't need to wonder.
Thursday, October 8, 2009
new hat...
So I was watching Oprah earlier. No, I'm not a huge fan anymore, but put it on my tivo so I wouldn't miss Stephanie yesterday. It was very emotional for me. A post for another day. I'll just say this...somehow, through it all, she is still beautiful. So beautiful. Anyhow, today the show is about hoarding. Hoarders are so sad. I don't hoard. Well...maybe a little, but not enough to get myself on Oprah. O was comparing them to people who drink, do drugs, over eat. I am like these people in a way. I go to extremes. With my picture taking, with my temper, etc. I could really use a bit more balance in my life. Right now, one of my issues is TV. Not all day. Not while my kids are around. But at night, after they have gone to bed. TV really does relax me. It clears my mind, which is important for me at the end of the day. It helps me fall asleep. The problem is...I don't want to stop. I love the silence, the clean house, the dim lights. I love it so much that I sacrifice sleep for more of it. At night, I'll tell myself I'm ok if I get to bed by 11:30. Once 5 am rolls around and I'm up feeding the baby, I wonder why I am such a moron. Bed by 9 tomorrow night, for sure. Then tomorrow night comes and I'm enjoying "my" time again. Balance, balance, balance. I'll get there.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
makeover...
Anyhow...I went in to check, and here's what I got. Margaret patiently sitting in her bouncy chair, while Molly went to town. I'm not even sure what the baby had all over her. Too many smells to be able to pinpoint them all. Lotion in the hair though, that's for sure. Molly was brushing it with my "free gift" make-up brush from Clinique. She tried to tell me Margaret liked it.
Monday, October 5, 2009
our mornings...
*On a side-note...let me just tell you that walking this morning was a triumph for me. It rained last night, and rain = worms. I had the kids do a worm check in the driveway before we left. They actually picked them up for me and put them in the grass. I can't handle them. The kids just don't get it. They try to explain that the worms won't bite. I realize that, but they WILL get stepped on and get squished into the treads of my sneakers. If that were to happen, I may accidentally bring them into my house, grind them into my carpet. Oh my word. Ew. It was totally mind over matter this morning. I tried really hard to focus on the road WAY ahead. Even then, I still caught a glimpse of quite a few. I just had to turn away really fast.Yuck. Sick. Gross. BLECH.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)



